Thu 18 Oct 2007
The small children can learn about team work and sense of responsibility if they are made responsible from the beginning. The household run smoothly and successfully only if all the members are equally responsible for the chores to be done at home. The chores if delegated properly can create a sense of unity in a family. The parents are responsible to allocate the work according to the age and ability or else there will be arguments around the house and you will never find peace.
Let the child, decide which chores he wants to do first and let them have the say in allocation of the chores. Most of the household chores are not enjoyed by children, but a sense of responsibility will make them do it and possibly enjoy it. This will also lessen the burden on the parents in keeping the household running. Once the children have decided what sort of chores they want to do. See to it that they perform it well and show them where the improvement is required while praising them for the work done.
Also make sure the child known that he will be punished if the work is done half heartedly. Make sure the child understands the need for the chores effective and efficient completion. Set the punishments for the work not completed or half done. Make the child understand the consequences of the work not done in the family.
Let the child put through their thoughts on the chores. Listen to them carefully and make changes where ever you feel it needs. Do not start an argument over the changes try and talk to them in a positive manner.