Wed 30 May 2007
Taking out the anger can be a terrifying experience on your child. The abuse you inflict on them can have a lasting effect and decrementing on their growth.
Try to curb your anger, find out what is the reason for that anger and try to control it. As a parent, you are given an opportunity to right the wrongs your parents or adults who used abusive languages on you. Do not do the same with your child what was done to you.
Be patient with the child and find out why the child is behaving in such a manner. It can be a learning process to find out why you feel that anger.
As a parent, you have to identify your own problems, it can be unfulfilled relationship or you are not getting enough recognition at work but not all this gives you permission to remove the frustration on your child. If the children see their parents angry they will also grow into the same and will talk to everyone the way they see their parents talking to them.
During the childhood, some of the accidents will occur try to ignore them and instead try some breathing exercises and calm yourself before talking to the child.
Anger management not only will keep you in check it will also keep your blood pressure down.