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When the child is born the parents are so happy that they want to shower all the love to them. The parents want the children to be well behaved and having good manners. They always worry about spoiling their child. But keep in mind the love you give them does not spoil them. The Love helps the child to grow in a healthy environment and can gain confidence and self esteem to face the world. The adults in the family can teach the child many things with love and they learn all this at very young age. The adults can play with them, teach them, protect them etc. The protection is one of the most important factors in the child growth. If the child feels protected he can face the world without a fear.
The parents are supposed to shower the child with the love, safety and encouragement then they can grow up to face lots of challenges in life.
Therefore, try to understand your child, listen to them and find out their opinions and why they acted in such a way in situations. This will come when you try to understand your child and he knows he is secured and loved. There will be many chances when he feels let down by his friends he should be able to communicate with you and can express his feelings to you.
Teach them the rules and regulations of a household and make him respect it. Set time limits which the child needs to adhere to. Do not nag or beg them to adhere to the rules be firm with them and they will comply. You yourself try to be on time and do not give the children a chance to question you.
p in mind that all the children are not same and each child needs to be tackled separately. For example one child will do everything you say with a gentle reminder but the other will need a strong approach to the same thing.
Always develop a firm but kind manner of enforcing the household rules and regulations. IT works both ways there is no need to fear a child and there is definitely no need to put a fear in a child just because he is not listening to you. Make it very clear that if they do not adhere to the rules they will have to pay with the consequences.
the saying goes “Love Conquers all” same way with lots of love you can get your child to be a model child who is fearless and knows the good manners.